on being very mismatched with a partner

[littlehajerika]

I have sent her quite a few messages with more questions and it did help some but I still felt like the answers were pretty general. I feel like this is something that I should bring up with a moderator after the swap is over. I think I'd be able to better evaluate at that point.

[ThreadOrYarn]

The 'general answers to specific questions' came up before in another thread. I remember a few people saying they give general answers because they think it's more helpful to be more open to what their partner wants to make instead of being so specific that their partner is really limited. 

Maybe that's what she thinking? Could you PM her and say you WANT specific answers instead of general 'oh, whatever you want is fine' kind of answers.