Recycling: I totally agree, even though I'm one that doesn't recycle! Hear me out though...I moved and started saving my bottles for weeks thinking, "oh, I'll find the drop off place when I have lots and time to do it" a couple months later and lots of bottles I finally found the nearest recycling drop off - 35 minutes down the interstate. I don't have the gas money to run my recycling and there is no other reason to go that way! Now I just wonder what is wrong with this stupid city that they don't have any recycling places......
You have to drive that far just to recycle?! I've never lived anywhere that didn't have recycling bins (the big dumpster sized ones) at most grocery stores! In WA, they picked it up every week; here in Japan where I live, they pick it up 5 times a week! It's so wonderful.
I won't let us fall: Good luck to you! I admire your desire to keep it up!
I thought I had to be perfect: That's the beauty of love. It finds people of all walks of life when the time is right.
To the "cat burgler": YES! That secret made me laugh so hard. While I think revenge is kinda dumb and it's bad to "steal", I still think that you did the right thing
scared of telephones: Wow. I'm not alone on this one?? While I'm not scared of the phone anymore, I really used to be. It would take me forever to work up the courage to call people, and when I finally did call, I had to be in a room by myself. The thought of being overheard when I'm on the phone used to be just.... awful.
I don't like the person I am: I'm sorry to hear this

I think everyone deserves to be happy with who they are. I hope that you're able to find yourself comfortable with who you are.
gay family: I think it's absolutely awful that people won't take you seriously because your family isn't like the "Jones'". Not everyone is happy in a male/female relationship and that's OK. I personally don't think your family is any less equal because it's not the norm.
Too many sour patch kids: Don't worry! Eat enough of them and they won't really be sour anymore. They'll just be delicious! Sour Patch Kids and Diet Pepsi got me through college
have all his babies: haha, this is awesome. I don't have much to say about it, but I love, love, love this secret!
orgasm: I don't know about everyone suggesting "gamer fingers". Fingers don't cut it. I agree with the ones who said vibes (yeah, yeah, TMI, I know! LOL). Just enjoy it, no matter how you're trying to get there. Google for information. Maybe you'll find something that will help you out
thumb sucker: I sucked mine until 3rd grade. This secret actually reminded me of another secret of mine that I'll share in an upcoming round.
50's housewife: Hell yeah! I would have LOVED to live my teen years in the 40s, and then get married and be a 50s housewife. I enjoy my life now which is quiet and simple. I cook and clean (it's just me and the hubby), make his lunch, make sure his uniform is always ready, and take care of the dogs. I also go to school and go out with friends. I absolutely love my life and sometimes get sick of the criticism I get for being my "husband's slave". Since when was doing all this being my "husband's slave"?? I don't get it. I'm completely happy with my life, so I wish everyone else would just lay off
Get Real: I have to agree with the card sender. I don't "hate" the people though. I just hope that they wake up one day and realize that the world isn't out to get just them. It's out to get all of us
abstinent marriage: Hmm. I hope that's mutual for you guys. I know marriages can survive w/o sex if both people are okay with it. I hope this is the case for yours!
It's really amazing how some of these secrets could be mine. Like someone else has said, I think a lot of us walk around thinking we are alone in our secrets, but we're not. It's really... weird.