First of all, I doubt anything looks bad on you - cut yoursaelf some slack, you're gorgeous.
Now, the question...how do you keep that first one up? Is there some kind of magical string, or do you have to stand just so? In anycase, it's very pretty, and I like the rough edges with that soft fabric.
it actually just stays in place with very little movement.
thank you guys for the wonderful comments. if you feel inspired to copy it, go ahead. ( just dont sell it

) they where both super easy. i will post other ones shortly.