Looks like you did a fine job, unisexually speaking. It's a really sweet looking sweater. And when the first baby is finished with it, you can hand it down to another one, since it's neither super girl-y nor boy-ly.
Oh my, oh my! That scarf is totally classy! You have inspired me to dig thru my old shell and lace patterns and make a scarf out of a pattern that I would not thought of using for such an item. Thanks!