Hello everyone! My friend is due 11/27 and I want to do a surprise shower for her. The problem is I don't know her schedule (she works weird days and hours) and her boyfriend is not having much luck getting in touch with me about when would be a good time. Do you have any ideas on how I can find out her schedule without tipping her off? Or maybe I should just let her know I'm planning something and ask when is good?
I thought I could talk to her about the Tupperware or candle party I want to throw and see if she's available on a certain day I was considering. Then when she gets there SURPRISE it's a baby shower! Do you think she'd figure it out? She's a great person but can be very stubborn about things if she doesn't want to participate.