i know i'm hardly the first to agree with you on this topic, but here goes anyway...............this is exactly
the situation i am finding myself in! and it's no problem at all. i'm pretty much a tomboy as well, and most of my friends are guys, including my best friend [second best, technically, after my fiance]. i have a few female friends that i like and hang out with, but we're not especially close in that squealy-girly-'ohmygodbemymaidofhonor!!!' way a lot of girls seem to be. and it seemed weird to ask girl friends to be in the wedding party just
based on the fact that they're girls, when i have a really close friend who happens to be a dude.
so, i just asked my friend if he'd be my 'bridesman' [like a groomsman, i guess?], and he was pretty thrilled. i'm probably going to have maybe one female bridesmaid as well, so things will end up pretty balanced. still, i think it's awesome to have suits standing on your side! plus, bonus, now i'll get to be my friend's 'best woman' [or something like that] at his