I got married today two years ago, in 2012, and just realized I never posted my wedding pictures! Wanted to share, I guess better late then never. (note that the pictures don't correlate with the text- I was got frustrated with photo bucket and just stuck them in randomly....)
We had a budget of around $5,000, which I know is way more than some budget weddings, but it was still significantly less than the "average" wedding. I live in California's "wine country" which means budget weddings are pretty non-exisistance, so we cut costs by doing almost everything ourselves and thinking outside the box of the traditional venue (winery). To get a sense of the wedding culture of my area: I BRIEFLY had a conversation with a well-established wedding planner in the area and when telling her I wanted to get married at a park, she said "oh no, you can't get married on dirt!" End convo, enter the long process of planning details!
I had a 10 month engagement. When I got engaged and started planning, I had just lost my job, and had very little extra funds, but then about 4 months in, I got two jobs and our budget was able to have more wiggle room. Photos are really important to me, so hiring a photographer was the first thing I did. I choose an amazing local woman, Michelle Feileacan (if you're in Sonoma County- she's great!), who did lots of outdoor weddings. I saved funds by choosing a small package, and then adding on an extra hour to make sure I got first dance captured. All photos are done by her. We found an officiant who was just starting out in her business and was only $100, and she helped us write the ceremony and our vows. We had a caterer, but saved by on food by doing salads and other served cold things via buffet. We did appetizer cheese and crackers and veggie crudités ourselves. Drinks were self-served iced tea, water, wine and beer.
I had sewed a dress to completion, which I posted here a few years ago, but had a total mental breakdown about 2 months before that I was missing the whole shopping/friends/"say yes to the dress" experience, and went and purchased one. I loved it, I felt special, and don't regret the money that I spent on it. I asked my 3 bridesmaids to find a gray dress and colorful shoes they would wear again, and my husband had a gray suit. His men wore black pants, white shirts and gray ties. I borrowed my MOH's veil, and got super glitzy, super cheap, earrings from Forever 21.
Venue was Riverfront Regional Park, operated by the county. It was around $50 to rent the picnic ground, and another $50ish to get a "special use permit" to have the ceremony in a different part of the park. The park is beautiful, a grove of redwood trees in between a lake and a vineyard, so I really didn't need much decorations. I was going for simple with the color coming from my flowers.
I got ready at my husbands grandmother's house, who lived nearby, and did my own makeup. One of my bridesmaids was in cosmetology school so she did my hair.
There were existing picnic tables for the reception, and I brought in folding chairs for the ceremony. There is no electricity at the park, so my music was from my iPhone, hooked up to computer speakers, hooked up to an inverter hooked to a car battery. It was all piled in a red wagon and pulled though the park. A friend was enlisted to change playlists depending on what was going on (pre ceremony, procession, first dance, etc.). I walked down the aisle to an instrumental of "Here Comes the Sun" and our first dance was to "Grow Old with You" by Adam Sandler from the Wedding Singer.
I regularly visited thrift stores and got yards of lace for very cheap, which I used it to wrap my bouquets, tie on assorted things, and use to mark the aisle. I am an avid preserve and canner, so I already had billions of canning jars, which were used for flowers and drinking glasses. I regularly posted on freecycle to get other clear glass jars from assorted foods and drinks, which I collected over the months and used for flowers. I bought muslin when it was on sale and with coupons from Joannes and used that for table runners. Napkins were purchased from a party rental place's end of year- clear out inventory sale, for less than they would have rented for. I made a variety of signs by spray painting thrift store frames and painting on the glass with chalkboard paint. I had an extra table so I made a display of photos of both me and the husband, and us growing up by gluing clothespins to dowels and sticking them in the flower vases.
My biggest accomplishment was growing my flowers, in my own garden, at friends houses, and asking my neighbors to donate anything blooming from their yards. Queen Anne's lace grows wild here as a weed, and I spent a few hours on the side of the road collecting as well. I had a great, colorful mix of zinnias, cosmos, sunflowers, and herbs. I spent about $50 from local flower vendor on big daliahs for the bouquets and my hair piece. The night before the wedding, my bridesmaids and I made the bouquets and filled the millions of jars for the tables. Another one of my bridesmaids had done a few floral design classes for fun at the JC a few years ago, so she was a huge help. She made one boutonniere, just for my husband. My bouquet was GINORMOUS, and so heavy. Something I didn't think about while building it!
Invites were designed and printed by me, on papers from the Paper Source, and then punched in the corner with craft punch. While I'm not at all a graphic designer, I had some previous experience using photoshop and inDesign from past jobs, so I downloaded the trial version of the Adobe programs and created the invites within that trial period. I had a flat card as the main invite in brown kraft card stock, an RSVP post card in the same paper, and a info card with a map and website, etc., on cream. All three got stacked and tied together with bakers twine.
I met my husband (who was a baker at the time) at a bar & restaurant I managed. He would bring in cookies at the end of the day for the staff who then gave him free beer. When I started there, and he sat down, I asked one of the other girls "I like cookies? who's he?". So to honor that, and because we could make them ahead of time, we had cookies instead of cake, and had them arranged on platters found at thrift stores and stands made from plates and candle holders. We made extras and had guests take them home as favors.
For my guestbook I set out card stock that coordinated with my invite paper and asked people to write notes for date ideas or give us tips for a great marriage. The park had a horseshoe pit, so we brought those along, as well as a volleyball pit that I turned into a badminton game. I created a photobooth by having a camera on a tripod and a remote shutter. I created lip and mustache props from fimo clay, and found a top hat and a boa on sale after Halloween.
If you have any questions, please let me know!
-at some point, someone found a rake and brought that in as a prop. Not taken from the photographer....
A while ago, a woman who works in my office gave me a bag of clothes to cut up and use for sewing projects. Amongst the standard men's shirts and wool sweaters, there was this vintage dress.
Its THIN, like cheesecloth, but in excellent condition. It isn't yellowed at all, and there are no holes. Putting it in the costume box is out of the question, because its tiny in the waist and ample in the bust. I'm really small, but can't get the eye hooks in the back to close over my waist.
Any ideas on how I could refashion it? What to cut up and save? Ideas on how to use the lace or bust embroidery? My sewing skills are intermediate. Any ideas are most appreciated! Or, any idea on what decade this is from?
I'm going to be a mermaid for halloween, and going to be "topless", and wanted the illusion that I was "covered up" by seaweed. I'm really wanting to make a "seaweed" shawl, scarf, necklace thing. But I have no ideas on what to do.
I was thinking of a green boa, but they are too bright and are obviously not seaweed. I examined the plastic fake seaweed at a fish store, but wasn't sure what to do with it. Does anyone have any ideas? Low budget is key!
This is what I have for my costume so far.
Every year we go to a potluck party, with a DJ, so I wanted to make sure I could dance. I made a pencil skirt out of cheap, shiny blue fabric (although its so crappy it really shouldn't be called that!), and sewed a few layers of gathered tulle to the bottom. The hall they rent for the party is cold, so I wanted long sleeves, so I made a nude-colored long sleeve top that I tacked to the skirt. I have a longish wig, that I'm going to string shells & rocks into, and I made a giant sea star from Fimo to clip over my ear.
So I'm getting married in August. I live in wine country in Northern CA, which is a "destination wedding location" so it automatically makes anything wedding related AT LEAST 30% more expensive. Our wedding budget is $4000, practically impossible in this region when photographers START at $4000 (and don't even get me started on the venues....). Regardless, we are making it work. We reserved a picnic area at a public park for $98, found a photographer who would do small packages for around a $1000, I'm going to grow most of the flowers... I never "set out" to make my dress, but after going to stores to try them on, I figured I could do it: For one, I know how to sew, and two, there was no way in HELL I was going to spend $1000 on something made in China, from POLYESTER!
I still have to hem it and put in a zipper, but I'm super excited and pleased with what I was able to make! Normally I show my partner what I've sewn, but I'm trying to stay traditional and not have him see me until the wedding day, so I can't show him! The next best thing: posting it here!
Read on if you would like to know all the drama I went through to make it (damn you Joannes, damn you!), how I achieved the rouching, and some cute kitty pictures.
This is the dress I was trying to replicate. I REALLY wanted a lace covered dress, with a key hole back, but decent lace is expensive, so I went with the 2nd best choice. Here I have on the WToo gown. Excuse the fuzzy picture. Pretty basic, sweetheart neckline, rouched bodice, gathered skirt, pleaded front. Even if I were to have the money (or the desire to buy polyester), I would have had to "de-poof" the skirt and shorten the train. It did have pockets (super cool) that I didn't replicate, and a row of buttons down the back seam (I hate sewing on buttons).
After searching online and all the pattern books, I couldn't find anything that was exactly the same, so I pieced together a bunch of different pattens. One was for the neckline, one was for the waste line, and one was for the skirt hem. Here 3-legged Gaia hides under the patterns that I have draped on my dress form. She think's its her life mission to chew and destroy everything. I throw her out of the craft room, but some how she still gets back in.
Because I have NO boobs, even the smallest pattern size doesn't fit me on top, so there was lots of muslin and sheet trial runs. I knew the top was going to be my problem area, so after doing just one waistline mock, I focused on getting the cup size right.
I also made a petticoat from broadcloth, and then an additional layer from petticoat netting. OMG that stuff is a pain in the ass to work with! Once I figure out the hem length, I want to add lace at the bottom.
Here my kitty Gale watches me curse at the damn stuff.
After finally getting the top fit right, I decided to do a full length skirt trial. Don't you just love the mis-matched sheets! (yeah for $1.00 sheets at thrift stores!) They are awesome because you can make notes and mark possible alterations right on them!
Now it was time to figure out the rouching on the bodice. I went back to a different store (because I didn't want to be the obnoxious girl who didn't buy anything) and looked at the dress again. It clearly was not pleated, but gathered. Let me tell you, there is not a single pattern in existence that explains how to get the gathering to come out of the boobs at an angle. After searching craftster, I came across Lisa's post http://www.craftster.org/forum/index.php?topic=270998.0, and she was trying to do a similar top. She ended up pleating and tacking hers, but I really wanted to figure out how to gather mine. After many failed attempts, it was like a lightbulb went off: just gather a super big square, then put the boob piece on top at an angle, and baste together. These are bad pictures, but I really want to show you how I did it incase your trying to do the same. front side:
Then cut the gathered piece to be the same size as the lining piece, and your good to go!
This is 2 times the height of the original piece. I used 3 times the height on the final dress.
After I found the WToo dress, I had stopped by Joannes to see what types of fabric they had that would be suitable. The had the duponi silk (regularly $24 a yard) onsale for 50% off. I ALSO happened to have one of those "20% off everything, even SALE items" coupons that they occasionally put out. I quickly bought up 7 yards of the white silk, figuring it would be enough. It came out to be around $10 a yard, not bad, still in my budget.
Then I cut out the silk, carefully with my pinking shears to reduce fraying. Here you can see I literally have 3 different patterns taped together for one of the skirt sections.
After cutting out ALL the skirt pieces, I cut out the top. I gathered up one boob and one side piece, just to confirm my method would still work, then went to work on the skirt.
Then the drama started. After I sewed all the pieces together, I realized the back section had weird grease-spot like stains on it that I didn't notice until I held it up in the light. AHHHHHH, I had been so careful with it! I almost cried. BUT, I had enough silk left to re-cut the back piece, so I ripped the skirt apart and sewed it back together with the new piece. Problem solved. But then I realized that I didn't have enough silk to do the rouching for the other bodice pieces. So I went BACK to Joannes (which of course was way later and the silk wasn't on sale, but at least I still had a coupon) and got another yard to finish the top. I mentioned the stains to the girl, and she said "Oh yeah, that happens all the time. Stuff comes off the truck dirty". WTF!!!! If she knew that, shouldn't they have checked my first cut for stains? Shouldn't she have given me this new yard for even cheaper, if not free??? UGGGGGGG I was really angry. Oh, but it gets worse....
So I brought my new silk home, finished the top, and then tried it on. THE SILKS WERE A DIFFERENT SHADE OF WHITE. I hadn't noticed. One boob was white, and the other boob was a slightly different white. They must have been from a different dye batch, even thought I checked the brand & bolt barcode.
So I had to rip apart the whole bodice, REDO the original two pieces, and then sew everything back together. Here's a bad "in the mirror" picture to make sure it fits. So my bodice is a different shade than the skirt, but its hard to tell, and you can really only tell under florescent light. At least its better than different color boobs!
Then I lined the skirt with broadcloth, then gathered them both together as one. Here I'm gathering the skirt up on my dress form to match the bodice.
Then I sewed the two together. There were a couple of spots I had to rip out and do over, but overall it wasn't too bad. I'm always so proud of my machine for going through so many layers of fabric! Gaia investigates what I'm doing:
Then I sewed a garment bag to store my dress in and protect from Gaia's chews.
And that was the saga of making my own wedding gown!
If you are still with me, thanks for looking! Comments and other Joanne's rants welcome!
I received today from strwberesh0rtcke. She claimed me for some wisty surprise, which I had listed as some Harry Potter inspired awesomeness:
First, a bright pink Weasleys' Wizard Wheezes apron. She said she hand died it, so I'm wondering, can I wash it normally? Its identical to the one I wisted, which I think was from a post somewhere here on craftster...
**and the mandatory apologetic disclaimer for the crappy bathroom mirror cell phone picture...**
I wish I would have gotten a few days ago to ware to the midnight opener! But no loss...I will ware it at midnight in July! And lots in between!
She also made some magnets of slogans i've liked...
Along with these great things, she also sent me two bags of clear flat marbles so I can make a gazing ball out a bowling ball that I've had for a few years....
Back in September, my town had its annual Handcar Regatta, where people build handcars and all kinds of crazy mechanical workings, and race them down the abandoned railroad tracks. Most of the people dress up, and its a fairly big event. Unfortunately, it was over 100 degrees, so we didn't stay long. I was, however, very proud of the costumes I pulled together for myself and my boyfriend.
There was a guy from the local paper taking pictures of couples and he posed us all silly.
I made my bustle skirt from this hideous 80's prom dress, complete with the butt bow (seriously, how were those every cool???) that I got at the Goodwill for $7.
I bought a corset, which was super tight and didn't really fit me, but it worked for the short amount of time i wore it. I made a little top hat from extra dress material, cardboard, and some scrap leather i had cut from (another 80's) Goodwill dress. I hot glued it onto a headband. The favorite thing I made, and got the most complements on, was a necklace of antique bobbins. I hot glued them to a sheet of paperboard in a random arrangement, and then tied it on with a ribbon. I also found a bird cage on super sale, and stuck a crow from a past Halloween costume in it. I hooked it onto a metal belt, and I called myself a steampunked ornithologist.
For the boyfriend, we got a top hat at a costume store, and I made the goggles from spice jar lids and an old belt. I found the vest at the Goodwill, and was too lazy to sew on fancier buttons, so I just hot glued them over the originals.
god I'm such a loser...I really shouldn't try swapping when I'm in the process of moving. Not only did I send late, but I forgot to post pictures of what rylnn sent to me a while ago. I see that she got to it before me.
However, she sent me some awesome produce bags and some snack bags, both of which I've been meaning to make for a long time but never got around to it. She also sent me a great "wisty surprise" of a resin pendant on a silk cord. She didn't post a picture with the cord, so that is at least one thing I can do!
I really like that she left the cord really long and not tied, so I can adjust it to be whatever length works well with whatever shirt I'm waring.
Once again, sorry I'm so lame and blew it on the picture posting....