maybe like ravioli with pesto sauce ( i don't think that has tomatoes in it but i'm only a quarter Italian, so i'm not sure of a recipie etc...)
humm......what about like sausage and potatoes...with homemade bread..that sounds yum
smoothies!!! they're great. i love them. personalize it with his favorite fruits and flavors and drinks etc
dessert: what about a cookie cake? like make a batch of chocolate chip cookies then just spread it all out on one big pan so it's like a gigundo cookie and add things like sprinkles and frosting
maybe like mozzarella sticks...not sure if you said if he didnt' like cheese......but if he hates cheese like my dad make sure when you're ordering something at a restaurant you say they're allergic to cheese-----they never put cheese on it anymore!
sorry if i didn't help at all