i think jewelry is up to me. The dress is very simple, spaghetti strap with a little bit of a chiffon cowl. I really wanted to make that shawl for the occasion, and i thought the subtlest is best --- because actually the bride said i am not "supposed" to wear anything that the MOH doesn't also choose to wear. I offered to make the other 2 ladies something matching a few months ago, but they didn't agree (I know, can you believe it? I think that they aren't afraid of the cold like me).... so I thought I'd worry about my own cold shoulders. So you see, I am sort of going against the bride's prohibition, and would like to do so as subtle as possible. Any color that doesn't match tonally with that light yellow would be out of the question.
Weddings are complicated -- even when they're not yours!