congrats to your friend. Now for ideas. Well I'm helping with someone's anniversary on Halloween and already we've come up with some good crafty projects. First off records being plates. You just heat up records giving them the ruffled edges. Then you line them with aluminum foil. I thank Leah for that idea. Maybe your friend could dress up has a zombie bride. I don't know if she's really into that kind of thing but she is having a wedding on Halloween. Also I think that everyone should dress up. What's the fun of having a wedding on Halloween if you don't dress up?