My fiance's name is Sam and mine is Melanie
I like monograms with just first initials but ours is S&M

I guess our married "couple's" monogram is sPm so thats ok but kinda reminds me of Spam. lol..ALTHOUGH i'm finding contradictory info on which initial is supposed to go first...some sites say the man, some say the woman and some say its up to you

but what is correct? so would it be weird to do M&S or mPs? (my inital first)
What about S <3 M, (<3 represents a heart) is it still too much like S&M? Guess we don't need the "&" and could just do SM.
Thoughts??
you could alway use the full names and last initial . ie. SAM P Mell