getting back to what donutgirl said about the Flylady website -- i love it! they have great tips for getting and staying organized, and making it seem pretty simple. i don't do the whole program, but have picked up great things like the "27 fling boogie!"
Oh how I love the 27 fling! I have a problem w/ keeping crap around that I don't really have any use for. This helps a lot!