eek, that would be incredibly complicated to sew.
you will probably have a lot of trouble finding a pattern like that, because its so difficult that it's not something the average sewer would tackle.
here is something vaguely similar:
but its gathered, not pleated.
I would recommend using a dress form, or making a duct tape dress form, and draping over the form to get your dress right. make a lining first, and that should help get the sizing right.
good luck if you try it!