I'm currently in the yarnies vs sewists swap and I messaged both my partner and the swap organiser on the send out date to say that I would be a few days late as I'd been asked to work extra shifts at work (I'm a nurse) and hadn't had a chance to put the finishing touches to my package. I got a reply saying that my partner had gone MIA in another swap and I realised that actually I hadn't heard from her in a while, I wasn't surprised by this as previously she had communicated to me that getting internet access could sometimes be difficult for her but that she would endeavour to reply in a timely manner. Anyway I pmed her and I have yet to receive a reply and this is nearly 2 weeks later now. I also finished the package in this time and pmed the organiser to let them know I had finished. I am still yet to hear what will happen now. I don't know what feedback I will get, I have a parcel I don't know what to do with and I haven't heard back from the organiser or my partner. From what has been said I'm presuming I wouldn't be suitable for a replacement as the send out dates had been and gone? So what happens now? I've never had a problem in any other swap and I've had 16 successfully completed swaps, admitedly some better than others but I've not yet received any negative feedback.
I had something similar happen. I posted pictures of what I had made, and it turned out that someone wanted to do a personal swap with me for one of the large items. (She pm'ed me, I didn't suggest it in the thread.) Maybe that would be an option for you, if your organizer doesn't have a problem with it. Though it looks like it's been a while, so maybe it's sorted out by now.